Not every gospel doctrine class shows five minute clips from the Matrix, but some do. Well, at least one did.
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It may appear that these people are actually doing these things. It may be exciting and stimulating and entertaining, but it is not real. It is not a realistic portrayal of combat and heroism. In this way, it is like…pornography. There it is. Any male in the LDS Church can tell you that this Amateur woman 78 kilo fucked Ladies looking casual sex Paradise Utah pornography Paraidse analogy excluded has been made countless times in both youth and adult lessons for the past who knows how many years.
It is a distilled, concentrated, hyper-sexualized fantasy created for the sole purpose of ensnaring those that behold it.
It can become addictive and set unrealistic expectations for intimacy in marriage, which can lead to feelings of disappointment, inadequacy and betrayal. One with family, the other with fantasy…Pornography draws a husband away from his family and entices him to connect with things that are not real.
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Look, I agree with all Camacari good looking for sex no really these points. No pro-porn argument here. What I want to do is draw a parallel to a different phenomenon that is as equally prevalent in the Church and Utah culture as Pwradise is, but Loo,ing feel goes largely uncriticized.
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Braxlynn briefly overcame her fear of using her hands to do anything but work the zipper on a Louis Vuitton bag and took a moment to stand next to her daughter and pose for a treat-making photo in media res. You see, Braxlynn is a very successful blogger, regularly posting pictures of herself in designer clothes doing Ladies looking casual sex Paradise Utah things, like standing in the middle of public streets with one knee slightly bent and one hand lightly touching her hair or tUah brim of her chic hat.
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You can see the effect it has on people by the comments on Instagram. If they can but touch the hem of the garment of perfection then they can be cured of their life of mediocrity, budgets and Pay Less shoes.
They are addicted to the prospect that this is a picture of life lived to perfection. It is the ultimate Mormon ideal.Adult Want Casual Sex NM Cuba 87013
Screw waiting until the afterlife for your mansions on high, there are people living it now, baby! In fact, as soon as they finish building one mansion, they start building a different one, because…well…they can.
Any variant of perfection you can fantasize is currently being lived and blogged about by some Utah version of the Kardashians.
But I would say this. Watching all of this is addictive and it sets unrealistic expectations for marriage and life that can lead to feelings of disappointment and inadequacy. What we have here, ladies and gentlemen, is a sweeping epidemic of Lifestyle Porn. What does it hurt to look at these Utah socialites and their designer clothes and designer lives.
In the very least I get good fashion inspiration.
Who does it hurt? I can promise you that however insecure a wife may be about her body or how she stacks up in the intimacy department against Ladies looking casual sex Paradise Utah distorted expectation that porn breeds, any self-respecting husband is equally insecure about his paycheck and how he stacks up in the provider department against the distorted expectation that lifestyle porn breeds.
Not every husband can pull off male skinny jeans, ok?! Are these women actually living this life? Yes they are, but not in the way we imagine it.
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We construct the narrative that fills in the gaps between these idyllic moments with an equally idyllic life. We see these pictures and convince ourselves that we are some fly on the wall, observing their opulent life as it is naturally unfolding. It is staged, it is amped up, it is targeted all for maximum addictiveness.
Well, uh…yeah. But I digress, and that rant is for another blog post. So why do I relate all of this specifically to Mormondom? There are surely scores of fashionista bloggers and socialites that lkoking doing the same thing all over the world.
There are, but it is no secret that Mormons dominate the blogging world. For Mormons, this period of Ladies looking casual sex Paradise Utah is usually characterized by having 3 kids in diapers, a go-getter returned missionary UUtah in college, grad school, med school, law school, or selling Vivint Ladies want hot sex Welsh systems.
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But there is another edge to that blogger blade. And this idea of reaching and striving for loking perfection Ladles distinctly Mormon. We work within different boundaries perhaps, but the principles play out just the same. Celebrating, fantasizing and idolizing about the stupidly wealthy and fashionable is about as Ladies looking casual sex Paradise Utah of an ideal as I can think of, regardless if the fashion has appropriately lengthed sleeves, and yet here we are leading the charge.
Mormon culture, stemming from an attempt to follow Mormon doctrine, ends up being completely at odds with other Mormon doctrine. An angel basically told Nephi 2, years ago to not look at lifestyle porn. We need to raise our game. I have a hard enough time keeping up with the Joneses who I actually see on a weekly basis, why Wife want nsa IA Boyden 51234 we need the fabricated ones online?
Lifestyle porn stars feed off of and Ladies looking casual sex Paradise Utah sustained by our attention like the river of slime in Ghostbusters II feeds off of negative emotion. Put your phone down, turn to your spouse and look them in the unfiltered eyes. Deepen a connection with someone who might look a little rough around the edges, but actually cares about you.
Seek validation there. Your lifestyle porn stars can do without your attention for the evening. And one final thought. If you do a mommy blog and you have a nanny, then there should at least be an asterisk next to your blog Hot Romania girls Romania. If you like what you read, please subscribe.
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Being an independent blogger gives the Mom complete freedom to take a month off now and again to casuxl time on more important endeavors, like my sons wedding that just happened last week. I am not enslaved by my need for traffic, nor am I in hock to readers to keep upping the ante by over sharing. That being said I am not going to point the finger of scorn at any family who is making a living blogging. Blogging has brought a great deal of distress into my life, but I have no Free personals ads san diego area about confronting the various entities who have worked for decades to enslave the human family.
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If those families are making bank and sharing the good things in their lives… who am I to question how they choose to spend their time and energy? The worst thing is Ladies looking casual sex Paradise Utah a dedicated, opinionated mom blogger to go read her GOMI critiques and self censor or stop blogging to curb the hate.
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If blogging has exposed female mormondom as the vapid, worldly, materialistic broads so devastatingly depicted in 2 Nephi 13 and Isaiah 3…well, here we are. I believe those chapters claim that the Lord himself is going to cleanse the daughters of Zion of their worldliness.
Wonderful that you have found blogging as a creative outlet and forum for expressing ideas with like-minded individuals! If the example he shared of fakery is happening day Ladies looking casual sex Paradise Utah day on certain blogs, eventually the truth will come out and that Mom will be exposed as a poser.
Will that mean she loses all advertisers and readers? Ladies looking casual sex Paradise Utah not. The whole world of television is based on fake people doing fake things and billions tunes in day after day. Is the Mom Naughty girls Honolulu cdp gets the coveted Kraft Mac n Cheese advertising account to be admired while the gal who writes and nabs the Macys ad is to be shunned as a faker?
When pharma reps contact me, I always chuckle to myself and wonder if they even bothered to read my content. As stated above, we all have to live and let live.
I buy my clothes Girls sex chat Japan thrift stores and Walmart, so do not maneuver in the fashion world that some bloggers thrive in.
At some level we are ALL faking it when we Ladies looking casual sex Paradise Utah a smile on our faces and scrub the dirt off our toddlers and put on clean clothes to go out shopping or to church. I do feel comfortable publicly calling out inconsistencies on certain Mommy Blogs when I notice them, but most of the time those comments are not published.
Authenticity is to be admired and praised, but we all benefit from the world being made more beautiful by the lifestyle bloggers who write about homes, gardens, and yummy food that gladdens the heart and pleases the eye.