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Thus, our bodies must also be seen as easy to control, easy to dominate: Depictions of Asian women in television shows, movies, and magazines show us as tiny and skinny — depersonalized, cookie cutter images of beauty.

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Women dealt with social and parental pressure to get married in order to achieve social and economic mobility and to secure a promising future. When my parents moved to the United States to seek other opportunities for themselves and for me, they tried to shake some of these traditional ideas. However, they internalized some messages. Their desires for me to find a partner and raise a family continued to linger. Part of my marriage potential became linked with how I look.

Caring about my future means caring about my body, which also means being thin. No one. Immediately, I jumped to their defense: I love my parents. They are encouraging. They are supportive. They love me so much. Asian immigrant parents are seen as overbearing, demanding, and strict. However, Adult singles dating in Phelps, New York (NY racism toward Asians is treated differently Asian male seek female to share fem feelings racism toward other groupsthis parenting stereotype is not understood widely as racist.

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Despite bluntness in talking critically about body size and weight, talking openly about emotions is tabooso any struggles around body image and mental health are often Asian male seek female to share fem feelings seen as a personal weakness or failure. My frustration is retranslated as an inability to discipline my body and its impulses — too lazy to work out, too gluttonous to diet. When I had no one to turn to for support, I was isolated.

I am trapped between protecting and loving my family, but craving affirmation and validation about my emotional conflicts with body, food, and family.

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But the realization that there are other Asian American women like me struggling to love food, family, and our bodies is an important beginning to moving forward. Her professional background is in designing curriculum and also communications strategy for social justice education initiatives.

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